Man that sucks. Hopefully she wants to stay friends and can understand what you need out of a friendship.
So, yesterday there was an event that happens every Easter, I'm not really that interested so I didn't care to go. She called me around 9pm last night, I got so shocked I almost forgot to press answer. And guess what? She is so mad at me because she really wanted to go to this event and I hadn't asked her if she wanted to go, so now she have to wait a year until the next one. Like what the f**k? No seriously, WHAT?! How the hell am I supposed to know you want to go? Does your phone only work one way? Why didn't YOU call ME and ask if we should go? I didn't even know what to say so I just hung up on her, couldn't sleep at all last night because I was so angry. Thought about calling her this morning but decided not to. I'm so over this, I love her as a friend but I'm done. If she wants to stay friends it's on her. So tired of this crap.
You know when you have one of those friends who never calls or texts you? Who always expects YOU to do that? Well, I have one of those friends and she has finally pushed me over the edge. We have known each other for 6 years and I'm ALWAYS the one asking if we should hang out and I'm getting sick of it. When I try to force her to do it (ignoring her for a few weeks) she DOES call me eventually, BUT, she's all mad I haven't called her and yells at me for not telling her why I'm mad at her. I've done this maybe 5-6 times now and she still hasn't figured out that no, I'm not mad at her, I'm trying to prove a point. Unless I call her we never hang out.